We have all at one time or another heard our mothers say to us : " My child did this or that on some impulse, but, deep down he is a very good person."
It is one thing to live one's life blaming ourselves for thoughtless actions that led us astray; guilt doesn't get us anywhere and it can even remove any stimulus to improve. It is quite another thing , however, to forgive ourselves for everything; that way we will never be able to set ourselves on the right path again.
There is also common sense, and we should judge the results of our actions and not the intentions behind them. Deep down, everyone is good, but that's irelevant.
An old Arab Proverb says: " God judges a tree by its fruits, not by its roots."
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